I see a lot of posts like this:
"I'm dating a really great person. But..." Then the poster lists red flag after red flag. "Am I just overthinking this? Am I being too judgmental?"
You're not overthinking this. You're not being judgmental (at least, not in a bad way). After all the countless hours of swiping, repetitious conversations where you're firing off your best lines like a stand-up comedian, and utterly disappointing dates with people you never want to meet again, you think this person isn't so bad. You had some fun times together, and you can list off some good qualities in them. In fact, they're great. Really great! Except... except they have a big red flag. Or lots of red flags. And the thought of ending this relationship and going back out there into the wild is scary.
You've got to trust your gut, and move on. It may not feel like it, but there are a lot of other single people out there - ones who you would be thrilled to be with (and who would be thrilled to be with you). You just have to keep looking. Try to enjoy life until you find them. But don't keep Red Flags Person around just to avoid going back to complete uncertainty. Not having any relationship is better than having a bad relationship.
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