So background if this helps, I'm 29m, I've never been on a formal date and have not had a girlfriend since I was in high school. I've had a handful of hookups over the years but never been able to get a girlfriend. I might this girl a little over a week ago at my college campus, since I am taking a summer grad school course.
She is 21, she is a dance major and extremely shy. We have been texting a bit and I did meet up with her and her good friend briefly for coffee about a week ago. I think due to the age gap, her friend wanted to make sure that she would be safe around me and that's fine. It was a fun mini-date, as we have called it through text.
I'm a hockey player, so I told her I would take her ice skating and teach her. I know the Monday afternoon open ice skates are never crowded at my local rink. Then afterwards I told her we would go get coffee.
There is a Starbucks down the road from the rink but about 20 minutes away there is a nice park that also has a coffee stand. Should we just go to Starbucks or should I take her to the park?
Regarding her shyness, in person she really doesn't talk much at all and I think she's the type to embarrass easily. However, she talks plenty through text.
Anything I should know or do to make her feel comfortable or less nervous?
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