How do you cope with the fact that something is wrong with you b/c your roommates are naturally successful on dating apps while you have never even gotten matches due to natural flaws?

I’ve (22M)literally never felt so sick.They literally can get on dating apps tinder,bumble, hinge and get a girl back to their place the same night. Then repeat with a different girl every day. This makes sense tho cause they’re 6ft tall white guys who are naturally fit while I’m unfortunately a 5’6 brown guy who’s busting his ass off in the gym but has a long way to go. I know confidence is key and it’s gone up for me. I tell myself focus on my grades, extracurriculars, gym and keep going out and things will get better. But let’s be honest confidence doesn’t help when you are a lesser race and height. Should I delete the apps? I’m not really jealous I’m happy for them but just wish I even had 1/1000 of their success. If I just get one match I can die happy.

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