I think I'm in a hopeless situation when it comes to dating/relationships.
I'm a 34 year old virgin living in Texas. I'm 5'3, bald, Indian, quite ugly, and physically disabled (fibromyalgia, EDS, chronic TFCC tears, and spinal issues). I'm unable to work out or lift weights because of my disabilities. I'm also autistic and struggle with social interactions (despite years of therapy and coaching).
Things I've tried so far:
I've tried online dating for several years (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Match.com, PoF, etc) but I've not gotten a single match, like, message, or anything.
I've read a lot of "dating literature" (Models, The Game, NMMNG, etc) and have tried multiple cold approaches and warm approaches. No luck there either.
I regularly attend support groups and meetups for autistic adults, and everyone there is a guy who's also lonely and sexless like me. I've yet to see a woman at any of these groups.
I've gone to countless meetups and hobby groups (cooking, yoga, language learning, gardening, etc). I've noticed that most of these groups consist of men, and the very few women that are there are either there with their boyfriends/husbands or are much older (like in their 60s) and simply not interested.
I've tried (paid) matchmaking services. No luck there either. Not even gotten one single date out of it.
I've even traveled to Asia and tried both online dating and cold approaching there. I've had zero luck there as well. Not even one match, like, date, or anything.
Prostitution is a felony punishable with prison time where I live (Texas) so unfortunately seeing an escort is obviously not an option for me here.
I've also been in therapy with multiple therapists over 10 years. It really hasn't helped me at all though.
At this point, after more than 15 years of trying with zero success, I'm just incredibly bitter and jaded.
So what do I do? What can I do?
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