I (21F) got on a dating app for a bit after I got my heart broken by the guy that I thought would be my boyfriend. I may have rushed into it a bit too fast though. I wanted to find another boyfriend but after a few weeks, I’m not so sure of what I want anymore. I matched with a guy that seems nice. We have been talking casually for a few weeks and he asked me what I’m looking for. Originally, I had thought that I wanted a relationship but I’m not sure if I’m ready for that or not now that I have had time to reflect. I just started a new job and don’t have a lot of free time. I do want a boyfriend someday but the thought of getting into a relationship now makes me a bit uneasy. But I’m not just looking for a casual fling either.
Maybe I’m just nervous about starting the dating process again since I’ve never actually had a boyfriend or formally dated before. I actually paused my account on the dating app after 2 days but have kept talking to him. I don’t know what to say. Partially it’s because I don’t even know what I want right now.
Do I tell him that I am looking for a long term relationship since that is a goal of mine? From what I have seen, I really do like him. He seems like a good guy who’s doing well in life and I don’t want to make a mistake with what I say. I also don’t want to mislead him or get myself into a situation that I don’t want. I could really use some advice.
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