I (30/f) was in a trash relationship for years. It was a really devastating heartbreak when we finally ended things for good. it's been two years since my break up and I am struggling.
After, our break up, I did the typical stuff. got into threapy, worked out, new job, new house, new city & started caring for myself better. I was a homebody but, now I go out more. I thought dating would be easier for me. I am always told how beautiful, sexy, cool and how great my personality is but...I am still single & guys seem to lose interest quick.
I've been doing the online dating and those relationships usually fizzle out after 3 or 4 days, sometimes we set up dates to meet but the guys never follow through. the guys I meet in person are usually at clubs/bars and once I am sober, I am no longer interested. when I revisit my convo's with the guys - I can't really see what I am saying or doing wrong. but, starting to take it personal bc I am the common denominator in these situations lol.
now, I am texting this older guy (40/m) I met one hinge. so far he has presented himself as the kinda guy I am looking for & I am excited about him. he's been expressing major interest but, now after 3 or 4 days of texting throughout our day and a call, texts have slowed down. thinking of stopping online dating for good if this one works out like the others.
At the very least, I just wanna go on dates and have sex. it's been a really long time, coming up on a year in October.
my question is: is this what I should expect from online dating? or is there another way I can figure out what I am doing wrong?
tl;dr went thru a breakup, trying to get back out there. thought it would be easier for me to date but, with the online apps, connections fade after a few days. meeting guys in person has worked out either. trynna figure out should I take this personally or is this just how dating is now a days.
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