I realized just now that the girls i find the most sexually appealing are the WORST girls for a relationship by and large and I feel like i ruined my expectations for sex within a healthy relationship with my last girlfriend and idk what to do about it.

I have a very hard time seeing myself being sexual with most women. even women who are very attractive I know i'd have a hard time getting off if i had sex with them unless the girl is into certain sex acts which most people would consider pretty hardcore. This wouldnt be a huuuge problem except im not sure that ive never met a girl who was into what i am into that isnt insane and obviously a bad choice for a serious relationship. its really like im only sexually attracted to women who i dont actually like as people and who specifically hate men. Obviously, i cant seriously date those women and im at a loss of what to do about it. i'm not sure how i can date someone who doesnt turn me on but also how can i date someone i dont actually like as a person? Does anyone else have this issue? is this common? anyone got any advice?

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EDIT: This is not caused by porn, I have a fetish. It will not simply go away if I stop watching porn or stop masturbating. I have had this fetish since i was in elementary school.

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