Over a year ago I (20F) met this guy (19M) on vacation. He and I live in different countries, and there is a small language barrier between us, but we still got along really well. We hung out for multiple days for several hours at a time. While on the trip, he met some other people our age, and they would go to the bars at night. He invited me to come, and so I did.
I met the other teenagers, and they were all really friendly. One guy (19M) in particular was very friendly, and we'll call him Guy B to avoid any confusion. I had to sit down on a couch because I was getting a bit drunk, to the point where I was almost falling asleep, and Guy B sat down next to me. He put his hand around my waist and placed my head on his chest. I left early, but everyone else was still there. Guy B started talking about how he wanted to get with me. Guy A got mad at Guy B and pushed him, telling him that he couldn't have me. When Guy B asked why, he told him that it was because he liked me.
And of course, as any teenager would, the next morning, they all told me. They did nothing wrong; that's what teenagers are going to do. But I got really excited because I liked him too, and before he left, I asked him if he liked me. Turns out, he had a girlfriend the whole time.
I was bummed out that he was with someone else, but I hoped that we could be social media friends at least. I sent him a request on Instagram, and he left it pending for about two weeks before rejecting it. That's when I knew that he didn't want me in his life. I have to admit, it really hurt, but I understand that he was trying to do the right thing for his girlfriend. Even if he did like me, he needed to distance himself in order to fight for his relationship. I just wish he hadn't gotten my hopes up like that.
Two months after he and I met, he broke up with his girlfriend. He then started being all over my social media, watching my Instagram stories and my TikToks multiple times. He still hasn't reached out to me, though. But the reason why I know that he still likes me is because he still talks to the other kids we met on vacation. They tell me that he thinks about me everyday, and that he's sorry for what he did to me. And that he fantasizes about having a future with me. Eventually, I had enough. Why couldn't he tell me himself that he likes me? I told them that I think that he's a POS, and one of them ended up telling him. He was crushed that I thought that about him, but that he still hopes for a future with me.
I know he felt badly about leading me on like that, and he still likes me, so I wonder if I'm wrong for calling him that or if I should be happy to call him out on his BS?
Tl;dr: guy I met on vacation led me on, only for him to have a girlfriend the whole time. Because he liked me, he cut off all contact with me. He broke up with his girlfriend, and now wants me back. He tells a bunch of our friends to tell me that he still thinks about me. I got upset and told some mutual friends that I think he's a POS.
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