I (m30) have knows this girl Sabrina (f28) for like 8yrs, I go through phases where I really like her and then suddenly I don't. This past year we have been talking a lot and yesterday, I decided I was going to finally ask her out. I asked her out face to face. Obviously, by the title she said no. On the ride back home, she kept saying she was sorry and patting my shoulder, she probably felt pity for me, but I felt great, like I had finally gotten that weight of my shoulders. I was very happy, on the drive back. I started thinking, that I didn't really care if she liked me back or not. I feel like I just vomited my emotions into her shoes and suddenly I'm laying there satisfied with a smile on my face telling her like, I'm sorry I did that, but man this feels great.
Is my mind using this as a coping mechanism to accept rejection? Do I even like this women? Why don't I care if she would have said yes or no? Am I just an immature child? Has anyone else gone through that? Is it wrong to feel that way?
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