I was briefly seeing someone I met on Hinge 6 months ago, and meeting them was like getting to know an old friend. We had a lot in common, had the same sense of humour, and time with them just seemed to fly past like nothing. I really hadn’t had that much fun with someone else in a long time. I was actually really convinced it was going to work out, but I had a lot of personal things to get through. I was insecure and anxious, and I think that translated into me being really desperate and needy. He also came across a little emotionally unavailable at the time. That dynamic unfortunately grew tiring for the both of us, and eventually led us to stop communication.
Although it hasn’t been that significant of a time now, I have made a point in improving myself and stepped away from the dating scene. I’ve been seeing a therapist, reconnecting with old friends, and overall feel a lot more confident in myself and have decided to start looking again.
I went on a date with another guy yesterday, and even though it was okay, and we had a lot in common, I just can’t seem to get the previous guy out of my head. I just rarely meet someone who I get along with that well, and I can’t get over the idea of ‘what if’s’, since we were never actually official. Like if I had seen a therapist earlier, would things have been different?
What should I do?
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