I dont have a lot of dating experience thanks to corona and that i live in a very small town away from bigger cities and have little same age people around lol
So basically we know about each other our whole life as we are from the same small city, participated in many events and such. 3 weeks ago a small group of us took a 2day trip, me and her were on this trip. On the first day she gave me a compliment and us 2 and another friend talked through the whole ride and on the 2nd one she flirted with me (put her head on my shoulder and lap), this hapened when there were no other guys around. later that week we had an after party where she was talking to one guy the whole night, we were siting at a table the whole night so i saw she wasnt intrested in him. later that night she aproached me and we flirted a bit- So i thought this was the time and shot her a dm after that. i asked her out 3 times and we canceled all 3 of them. in between we also had and event where we sat together, we vibed the whole evening together to the music and i noticed she was very interested and constantly looking for my eye contact. after the third was cancelled one she asked me out and after 3 weeks we went for a walk on a nearby hill and watched the sunset, i thought it went good as we talked alot and also laughed a lot also made loose plans for next trips. this was 2 days before todays trip. so today we went for a 1 day trip and she seemed to ignore me as there was a guy that spoke constantly and you couldnt talk unless you were far away lol. but he only talked to her(the same from the afterparty), me and her had a couple of convos on the trip and we laughed but it felt a bit distant. our group went for lunch later and i caught her a couple of times looking and me and vice versa. so my question is should i continue to try to pursue it or just leave it be as i am very confused and runing out of ideas what to do.
probably worth pointing out that we didnt talk a lot over ig, just a day or two before we tried to set a date for the date or when i tried asking her out, we just sent pictures to eachother and liked them. also we didnt dm since our walk, as she sent me the pictures of the sunset later that night
Thank you for your advice in advance :)
P.S. sory if there are any mistakes as english isnt my first language.
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