So I kind of get it if its someone who you see in-person. Maybe your afraid of what their reaction would be? Do you feel unsafe? I mean I would wait until they actually asked me out to let them down though.
Otherwise people think that they are too nice to do that. So its better to try to drop hints??? Seriously people will either completely miss those hints or come up with excuses to why they could still win you over. Be upfront. Its the kind thing to do. It pure torture to be left in limbo if you like someone. Id love it if the last person who I liked a lot would've have been really upfront with me. Would have saved me time and stress.
My sister dated this guy for awhile and knew for months that it wouldnt work. Drove me crazy. She kept hanging out with him. Did things like asked for a break. All of this becuase she couldnt just tell him. Feels like your watching someone emotional squirm for months. Felt bad for the guy.
I dont see the excuse on dating apps. If you go on a 1st date and dont want a 2nd just say it over text if you need to.
As a guy im guessing it may be unfair for me to say some of this, but dating would be much better if we all just were upfront. So much wasted time.
Im to the point that if I dont feel like they are "eager" to go on the date I dont feel like pushing it.
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