Pretty much explained in the title but I've been talking to a girl for nearly two years. Yes I know it's a long time but we haven't been able to meet because of covid restrictions etc.
We are from the same country but she went back to her home country from Christmas in 2020 and hasn't been back since. We agreed to date other people but she told after a while that she had no interest in dating other people only me.
We spoke everyday and even video called whenever we had a chance. However, in December 2021 she completely disappeared didn't read my messages or anything. Around the end of December she messaged back and claimed that she didn't respond because she was busy with a friends wedding. I was a bit suspicious of what was happening but ignored it.
Anyway around new year 2022 she messaged me asking how I spent my new years I told her and then asked her what she did. She didn't respond until 4 weeks later after I messaged her saying that I was getting annoyed by her.
As soon as I sent that message she responded straight away saying she's been busy working and partying and didn't have time to look at her phone and message people.
I don't buy that at all because I believe that everyone is clearly on there phones all the time and it doesn't take that long to respond to a message.
It's honestly getting annoying I've been talking for ages and I was excited to meet up with her but now I honestly don't think I'm interested anymore. That kind of behaviour is just weird and I don't know feels odd. She still claims she is interested but I'm not sure. It makes me feel unwanted idk.
She messaged me recently asking about my new job but I haven't bothered opening it or responding to it. I have no idea what to do.
Should I just ask if she's still interested?
Ask why she ghosted me for so long?
Explain how I didn't like being ghosted for 3-4 weeks?
Or just move on.
TL:DR Been talking to girl for almost 2 years, talked almost everyday, video called when we could, she ghosted me twice but when she comes back acts like everything is fine, said she didn't respond in 3-4 weeks because she was so busy, I don't know what to do.
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