(44F/38M). Met late last year through OLD...actual dating for about a month and a half, although there've only been 4 dates. Unusually inclement weather and a bout of covid happened. Established exclusivity, literally yesterday evening. And sidebar: it was one of the easier conversations I've had about that. Basically - are you seeing other people? No, are you? No, great! Let's do this. It's not always as difficult in reality as we think it maybe.
Now he wants to plan a weekend away in a few weeks. On the surface, it doesn't feel too soon, I guess. But we've only spent 3-4 hours together at a time and especially considering the wrenches thrown in this year (bad weather/unsafe travel, then covid) we haven't really established any consistency in actually dating. But maybe a weekend away can help establish that?
I don't want to rush into anything, but I also can have the tendency to drag my feet a little at the start of a relationship. So, I guess I'm looking for what's been kind of the average for spending extended time with a partner in a new relationship.
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