We're in our early 20s and are currently away from each other because he entered the military. We've met each other before he left and have strong feelings for each other. But during one of our conversations to discuss about getting into a LDR, he brought up many concerns of his asking basically all the general problems that being in a LDR comes with. (distance, being there for each other, and etc) He's had experience in a long distance relationship before and I think that's mainly why he has so many concerns because his past LDR didn't end well for him. I've never been in a LDR, let alone an actual relationship so I know that there are some naive-ness to me. He's also personally expressed how difficult it is to be in one, but he is willing to try a LDR again for me. But I can't help but feel like I'm trying to persuade him to be in a LDR with me. And I understand that people have fears about getting into a LDR and I did too, but I am willing to work things out with him.
I would like some advice on how I can reassure him? I don't want to lose him because we're so good together, but I can't help but feel uncertainty and hesitance on his part.
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