So I meet this girl at my New Year’s Eve party. She’s a roommate of a close friend I invited. It’s crush at first site, but I don’t get a chance to sit down and talk to her properly as I’m busy doing hosting stuff(e.g getting food, drinks, cleaning etc..). But overall, everyone one including her have a good time.
The week after the same group go clubbing. I take this opportunity and we are dancing together, have chats over drinks and have good banter. Overall the vibe feels great. She ends up leaving earlier than the others so I ask my friend if she’s single. Turns out she is, BUT, her previous breakup was messy and my friend doesn’t think she’s ready.
Here’s the breakup in a nutshell. It was 6 months ago. Her ex dumps her but she’s still in love and wants to wait for him. That never happens and she says ‘Fk it’ I’m done. But because they study at the same campus she has to see him every day until the semester finished at the end of 2022. Technically it’s only been a couple weeks since she’s stopped seeing him.
My question: is it a good idea for me to ask her out still. Obviously if she didn’t have this messy breakup history I wouldn’t have thought twice.
On one hand, the right thing to do is to wait. Give her more time and space. It sounds like a scarring breakup and I don’t want to hurt her. I also don’t want to be a rebound.
On the other hand, I’m crushing over her hard and haven’t stopped thinking about her. Asking her out would get me a yes or no and I won’t have to keep wondering. She’s everything I could hope for. Her personality is incredible, super down to earth, funny, caring and great banter. ON TOP OF THAT she’s beautiful and smart. Honestly her ex sounds like a tool for breaking up with her.
So yeh, would appreciate some help here. Have you been in a similar position before?
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