Between relationships and covid I had not dated for years and when I did, it was in a totally different place.
I started dating a year ago and my expectations were super low. I am below average and I was expecting to have a date every 1-2 months if I was lucky.
In the beginning I was giving a chance (one) to women I shouldn’t have dated due to red flag or not being very attracted.
I had many horrible dates with toxic women and others that were pointless because there wasn’t enough interest.
With time I got better, no more chances to the toxic ones, not trying anything if I am not sufficiently attracted/Interested.
Somehow I got better with dating too, not sure how, but probably a mix of not caring too much and being used to the process and therefore more confident.
No I rarely have horrible experiences and when I do is because I am lowering my standards on purpose (casual date, curious about her personality)
If I like her, date 2 almost guaranteed and I often get to date 3 or more.
Now dates are usually at least pleasant and the last ones ended because we have high standards (me on personality, them on look)
I am dating less but with much more quality, more offline than online and it’s much more healthier, although still not as good at it should be.
The trick was to learn from mistakes and be honest to myself.
I hope to find The One in one of the next dates.
Good luck to everyone but yes, luck helps but don’t expect luck to do all the work.
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/p7RBSir
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment