Context:
About a year ago I was single and on dating apps. I had 2 matches that I really could talk well with, but we didn't go out yet.
I went on a 4-day/weekend getaway for a friend's bday party. Met a girl there. Felt like we connected like crazy. As a person a perfect match.
I texted my two matches to apologize for going MIA for a few days and informed them that I preferred to cancel the date we had planned, because I connected with this girl. And I didn't want to lead anyone on or waste their time.
A few months go by dating the girl I met at the party. But we realised more and more that our plans for the future don't align at all. So we broke up.
Now a few more months passed. Had some time to focus on myself, had some exams at work that I focused on. And I feel ready to date again.
I just don't like diving in the misery that is dating apps. Too many people there for all the wrong reasons or not serious about it.
So now I am really regretting not getting to know the girls I matched with before 'making a decision'. I just prefer to focus on one girl and not to date around. And now I regret jumping in a relationship before giving the others a chance.
So I was wondering if it was ok to connect old matches? And if yes... how do i best go about it? The last thing I want to do is give them a 'second choice' feeling.
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