I (m28) am an introvert, but perhaps more accurate to say I'm a hermit. I go to work and get groceries but that's about it. Most of my free time is spent playing video games or watching TV. I'm not scared of socializing but it does absolutely nothing for me. For example, I'd rather listen to a band on my headphones than go to a concert because the atmosphere and vibes don't add to my experience and my headphones have better quality than the stage amps.
I've tried numerous dating apps but they've all been terrible experiences. Days or weeks without response and when they do, it's always to ask that we continue the conversation on Instagram. I'm never using a Facebook product. I value my privacy and if a company is going to sell off all my personal data I at least want a cut. I don't think it's unreasonable not to be beholden to this single corporation for all my social interactions.
I'm sure there's a lovely woman out there who would also love nothing more than to snuggle together and rave about anime. But with my current lifestyle, the chances of us crossing paths is zero. I know I have to put myself out there but frankly I have no idea how. Should I start spending my free time loitering in a mall? Visit a bar every day and search for others who don't want to be there?
I've started using Discord recently but I'm still trying to get a handle on the basics. I figure that's the platform where I'm most likely to find people with similar interests but nothing about the interface is clicking with me so it's an uphill battle.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced similar circumstances, especially post-pandemic. I'd love to hear how you were able to reconnect with others after a period of isolation.
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