Hi everyone, I would love to hear your opinions. I have been seeing a guy for 1 month now. He has said he is interested in having a relationship. I have met his friends, and his family knows about me.
Sounds like a good start right?
WELLLL I am still confused about his actual interest in me.
He is a talker whereas I am more on the observative side, I listen and ask questions.
Therefore when we talk it is usually him, and mostly about himself. He has asked me a few questions but has bothered me over time since I feel like it is not enough. We have openly discussed this and he said his style of conversation is based off both of us talking about ourselves. I get it. I can't expect someone to ask me questions all the time because everyone gets to know each other differently.
One thing I noticed is that when I do talk about myself there are NEVER any follow up questions.
When we hangout with his roomate he will bring up a story about himself or something that we both have heard countless times.
Yesterday he met my sister and best friend, he made jokes and such but ended up resorting to talking about himself. Maybe to impress them? Also.. while he was saying something, some jokes were made by others and we all started laughing... but instead of even laughing or taking in that moment.. he kept talking over our laughter and continuing his story about himself.
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