I (24f) have been seeing this guy (25) for almost a month. For three consecutive weekend, I slept over and hung out with his roommate and friends.
This week I asked his roommate if she was going to pay me back for an outing last weekend (I spent $230 without tip) because I’m a nice person who is also naive at times. We couldn’t split the bill- his other friend paid me back but the roomie never told me if she planned to (she said so before we paid) or if she would cover me another time. On Wednesday I said I was sorry for asking so much but I’m kind of over asking and she can get me back another time. He was sending me snapchats and memes all of thanksgiving. I called last night and he was at a party. I just called to say goodnight and have fun. He replied to a text about getting lunch saying yes then he didn’t reply to me at all today.
He’s not a huge texted or anything but I feel like his roommate may have said something to make him back off (you know how things change when money comes into play).
Anyways- I am asking if I left a couple things last weekend and he won’t get back to me. Last I texted was “I don’t know when we might hangout again but can you let me know? I could have bought a new one if it’s not there”
He asked me out. I’m not desperate to wait around but I’m not too sure what to do from here? Do I keep reaching out? I do want my stuff but it sucks that he communicates better in person and I feel like the whole “hey will you pay me back?” Situation triggered his roommate to say things about me.
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