My BF confessed something to me a year and a half ago, 6 months into our relationship. It had been eating away at him for months. He dry humped his little brother during a tickle fight once at 13. His brother was 8 and claims not to remember. My BF cried telling me this over the phone and said he felt I needed to know to accurately assess him/so he wasn't living a lie. A few weeks later he apologsied to his brother and parents. He sort of had a mental breakdown after this and was guilty over everything and anything at all for a few months after. The brother and him seem fine, they play PlayStation and basketball together and his brother often teases him, he doesn't appear threatened by him. I was in shock and had no idea what to do when I first heard this at 19. I'm 21 now and I still remember sometimes and panic I'm a bad person for choosing to overlook this. This was never something I thought I would accept in a relationship.
I feel sceptical as he continued to read bro/sis incest stories online until he was 15/16 (not step just straight up, he doesn't have any sisters). He didn't realise why incest porn is wrong until he was 19 and I went on a rant about it, unaware of this fact he stopped 3/4 years earlier. Sometimes I can't sleep with worry I'm overlooking a red flag. I aware that incest is encouraged with men nowadays because of all that porn. Do I need to be worried?
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