I'm not looking for answers I'm just looking for examples. I am in a relationship currently that recently took a turn when my girlfriend realize that she's been struggling for the past four years in our relationship because she polyamorous and I'm monogamous. for a while I have tried to see if I could open that door for myself but I'm realizing that I just basically been failing at it and I'm really just hurting myself. I love her and she loves me still and she doesn't want me to leave and I don't want to leave her but the pain is a lot and I don't know if it will ever go away I don't even know if there's a chance and I don't know what the healthiest way for me to deal with it is. Where as I could leave the relationship, she would be open to freely explore this side of her and I would get hurt. and then the far-fetched case that someday it's possible for us to get back together the fact that I let go this early might make it hard or impossible for me. So I'm scared to let go now. I just want to know from the perspective of anyone else if there's anyone out there at all who is gone through a similar situation if there is any hope that there is some way somehow a solution.
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