Was he using me for validation?
I talked to a guy from dating app Hinge all the way through the first lockdown. It was more like emailing however so he sent one long message a week.
We went on three dates, but I realised I was having to put all the effort in to arrange them and ask him. On the date, he kept asking if I liked his clothes and other things But never complimented me. He talked and talked about his desire to be a professional singer but revealed he’s unemployed but talked about projects endlessly. He never really asked about me. There was never a moment of silence though and interesting conversations and lots of laughs! There were great vibes on the date, it felt like a connection
He also went on these long monologues about a topic he’s interested but he would go on and on for over 30 minutes without letting me get a word in edgeways. Why would he do this?
And he hasn’t texted me after the date but will reply (with a week delay) If I text him. So is this communication normal during these weird covid times ?
I’m fairly pretty but I always attract these men that disappear and reappear and I’ve never experienced anything different. Why could that be!
I ALWAYS GO ON DATES BUT THE MEN NEVER SHOW MUCH INTEREST EVEN THOUGH IM FRIENDLY FUN AND EASY TO CHAT with
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