Many people dating right now, especially those who are inexperienced in dating, relationships and life, do no know what they want in a relationship, or in life in general, and this can cause them to lack commitment, make them indecisive, and therefore appear to be difficult to get any sort of commitment from them. You might be thinking there is something worng with you of the person you are trying to win over is reluctant to commit, however it may be that there just do not know what they are doing, with their life and I'm their pursuit of a relationship. That has nothing to do with you.
Also, many people have no idea what is good for them, some actively choose people that are bad for them (trauma, low self-esteem etc.), and seemingly ignore options that appear to be more healthy and fulfilling. You might be confused as to why someone you are dating or trying to date is not making progress with you when you appear to resemble as a very good and healthy match for them. Well, they may not even know that you are good for them, and even if they did, they may not have the desire to pursue you over other less favourable options.
Therefore, in these cases, you should not take it personally. Remind yourself of your worth and find someone who appreciates it.
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