For context we met on hinge. Profile seemed normal until I saw his insta and there were multiple pics of the same girl from as late as April of this year and him in uniform (huge red flags I didn’t pick up on till it was too late). She commented “ilysm ❤️” on the April pic so I thought maybe they broke up who knows. I agreed to going out anyways cuz I wanted to ask about the girl in person and he was cute.
First date went well, we made out since we trauma bonded and he initiated sex (another red flag). He was much cuter in person and holy shit he was a good kisser. When he called me good girl it was game over.
Our second date was the following day since he was dying to see me and I’m like ok fine. It consisted of us going clubbing and he crashed at my place since he lives almost an hour from me. We start fucking the second he sets foot in my apartment and it was quite literally the best sex I’ve ever had, the guy is 25 and I’m 22 so it was clear he was def more experienced sexually than me. When we finish I ask her about the girl and he was like I nEvEr DaTeD hEr ShEs ToXic and I’m like explain a photo of them hugging in typical couples fashion. He was like ThAt wAs FrOm NoVeMbEr and I’m like clearly you dated/are dating her…… I also straight up told him “if you are dating her I’m not tryna be anyone’s side piece”. He said he’s not but that was obviously a lie. Other than that the date went exactly as planned.
The next morning he woke me up by kissing me and I’m like ugh let me sleep and it turned into another round of really fucking good sex. We brunched after and everything was fine. I asked when I could see him again since I wanted to fuck him one more time and he said after I get off work Wednesday and im like ok slay. Next day he ghosts me and Wednesday came and I asked if I could still come over and he left me on opened. My first thought was his gf/ex is back. Tried so hard not to cry over him but I eventually gave in. THANK GOD the universe removed him from my life sooner rather than later cuz I don’t wanna be with a cheater. Went on anti military man tiktok and realized oh shit most of them are liars cheaters like the guy…..
So fed up with dating after this experience so I’m taking a huge step back. I felt like I was wanted for my body and nothing more, and I feel horrible even tho ghosting is a them problem. Sometimes I wonder if I’m the problem? Or I happen to get stuck with the wrong men? Thoughts? Opinions?
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