Or how do you make a lifestyle that involves more women?
I’m [25M] realizing that is my issue. I have had mediocre success on OLD. To my surprise. Found a few relationships on there, decent amount of hook ups and FWBs.
Helped me boosts my confidence somewhat since I always figured I was too ugly to find somebody.
Still kind of feel this way because never once have I been hit on in person… or checked out. As far as I know.
But I think the bigger issues is lack of opportunities that present themselves. I don’t have a lifestyle where I can meet much women.
Lots of people meet at work, but my workplace is mostly guys.
School, I don’t go to school anymore. Graduated college 2-3 years ago.
I don’t have friends. Not really. So I don’t find myself in get togethers or have people try to set me up with somebody.
Lots of people recommend those meetup.com but that kind of thing is non existent in my town. I’m from a small city in south Texas and those kind of things don’t…. Interest us Latinos.
So I clearly need to change my lifestyle. To put myself out there but don’t know where to begin. Its hard making friends as an adult.
My day usually looks like this
Wake up
Exercise
Shower
Go to work
Get back home and do hobbies, which include reading, guitar playing video games. Also cook and wash dishes.
When i go out, its usually geek things like going to a movie by myself. Like smoking cigars too and hook up with my cousin and his friends at one of each other’s house. Also like eating out at a good restaurant often. Which would explain why the few times I have felt interest from another girl in person has always been a waitress.
Advice?
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