I'm so confused. Me and him have amazing chemistry when we hang out in group settings. We are physically affectionate, we flirt and joke around, have long hugs, smile at each other a lot and the energy is just... intoxicating. It's like I melt inside when I'm around him and it seems like he does too. We have been texting the past few weeks everyday- talking about random shit, sometimes deep (which i love) but other times just kinda "what are you having for dinner" vibe, which I hate. Sometimes he sends me photos of his dog or memes that I don't find funny and I just... don't know how to reply. I have asked to call a couple times because I much prefer proper conversation but he didn't seem keen and I hung up (after making an excuse and saying goodbye) after a few mins because he sounded tired and bored. We had our first 'date' last night. It was just me and him getting a drink. We sat opposite each other and our knees where pressed against each other most of the night (neither of us moved away) so the physical chemistry was good... at least I think it was.... sometimes I wanted to pat his arm or take his hand but I sensed he wouldn't want that so I didn't. We didn't even hug goodbye. Also, there was a lot of silence. For some reason we just didn't find that spark and I felt drained and I think he did too. I don't know if we were both too anxious and over thinking, or tired, or just... the chemistry isnt as good as I thought it was? We have so much in common and I find him fascinating- but last night he just kept talking about his friends which wasn't exactly exciting. I feel like there was/is so much potential? But this happens a lot to me. I feel chemistry with someone and then when I hang out with them one on one or go on a date and it just feels really awkward... I haven't texted him since because I feel confused and kind of upset... not with him but just scared that he doesn't really like me much.. any thoughts? Or anyone been in similar situation?
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