I've been through this with most girls I've been on dates with and I know my lack of confidence, people pleasing attitude, anxiety, being too accommodating, not standing up for myself, and giving them too many chances lead me to that. I would always wait after so many red flags, that I tried to overlook, and lies before giving up on them and they would get mad or upset but then be in a relationship with someone else within the week. Part of my lack of confidence comes from being put through these situations and although I'm working on my confidence and doing better with all those issues of mine, I want to know what goes through a woman's mind when they do that. The ones I met seemed to want to their cake and to eat it too so they didn't have good intentions with my feelings.
I'm struggling with trying to figure out if dating is still worth it now at 23 and a college graduate and not having been able to get a date in over two years, which turned into a horrible experience for me. Anyways, I feel like learning more about this would help me with my confidence and maybe give me more perspective on how people think.
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