Hey everyone,
I (30/m) had a date last night with an awesome girl (30/f) who is incredibly beautiful. We hit it off over drinks, went for a walk, began kissing, and before you know it she was wanting to come back to my place.
It was around 12am and she was a bit worried about the time so she wanted to come over quickly for some sex. She is also a mom and I believe she had a baby sitter so I dont think she wanted to be out too late.
She comes over and it gets intense very fast. Clothes coming off, kissing bodies etc etc.
Now - I hadnt masturbated for several days and I could already feel myself slightly more ready to cum. I put on the condom and I do tell her "Hey look, I know you want intense sex right now but I have to warn you Im gonna go slow. I havent masturbated in a couple days and I might be a little sensitive. But if I do cum just give me a few minutes and I'll be good to go again". She is from a european country and her English is good but I dont think she fully understood.
After about 60 seconds Im already feeling like I want to cum, so I go slower and try to do positions I know I can last. She is super horny and wants me to go harder. She pulls me off and then gets on top of me which I know is a position I cant last long in (with any girl). After about another 60 seconds I tell her "Look Im ready to come". I cant hold it anymore and I finish in the condom. She thinks Im joking, gets off and see the full condom and I can see is both shocked and disappointed.
I tell her Im not done with her, so I lay her down and go down on her for sometime. She is loving it and so am I. After about 5 minutes she starts rushing me and wants me to get hard this instant. I tell her it doesnt work like that I need at least 10-20 minutes. She keeps saying "well I have to go, I have to go its late".
After some attempts to get hard again and penetrate her I kept losing my erection - I just wasn't fully ready and condoms dont help either. So we stop having sex. I look at her and say "Look, this doesn't usually happen for me and I know you that you are disappointed right now but you need to know that I will be ready to go again in a bit and it doesn't help that you keep trying to rush me. Yea its embarrassing as a guy but sometimes this just happens. I still had an awesome night and I'd love to do this again and really fuck you how I wanted to tonight"
She smiled, we laughed a bit, I walked her back to her car but I could still tell she wasnt all that thrilled (understandable).
This morning I wasnt feeling all that great about it. Not that I came quickly, that I actually dont care too much, it was how she just kept rushing me and then left not really seeming okay with it all.
I think Im gonna text her later today saying I'd like to meet up again and I had a good time (plus she left an ear ring at my place) and put the ball in her court.
Not 100% certain though how to proceed? Any men had something similar?
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