I am mainly asking because the last 2 weeks, I started to date again for the first time since I got out of my 4 year relationship 1.5 years ago. So... I'm rusty.
In about 5 dates, I have tried to text girls back the next day to let them know that I enjoyed getting to know them, and I hope they had fun as well.
Two of the 5 just straight up "ghosted me" and never responded. A 3rd, I told her that I did not think we had much of a connection, but had a great time regardless. Another one responded with a very neutral response, but seemed opened to meeting again.
I just went on a 5th date today, and honestly felt the best connection with her. One of my close female friends said I should not text her back for a few days. That she believes people are misinterpreting my genuine attempt to follow-up as a sign of neediness.
I guess I need to re-calibrate that part of myself.
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