I’m 26 and living in Wisconsin. I met this girl who is a year older than me at work back in February. She normally wasn’t my type but I started talking to her and we eventually went to a hockey and basketball game together. I expressed interest in being roommates with her as she lives with her parents still. When we got laid off from work due to COVID, we started hanging out more and she would invite me over to her place to watch tv. We would eat together at her place since restaurants have been closed for dining in.
We would go to the stores together, when she got real sick and we thought she may have gotten COVID, I took her to the ER. She was out sick for a week and had no way to pay her bills so I have her money, expecting nothing in return. That’s when we got laid off and started hanging out a lot more.
By all accounts, she did things I thought were flirting. Telling me about her past boyfriends and where she had sex, how one relationship ended badly and she went to the hospital. She would look at me sometimes, she would make fun of me, touch me and even playfully kick me.
Suddenly, she didn’t want to hang out for two weeks and barely texted me. We would text a lot, even after I left her place, we would end up texting a few hours afterwards.
I told her how much I like her by text but then she told me she would never date me and is 0% sexually attracted to me. I told her I’m not trying to get into her pants, I actually would like to have a long term relationship with her and I’d like a chance. She said that I was crazy and obsessive.
Since then, we have hung out twice and we still text but not as much. She still wants to be roommates and she says we are just friends. The last time I saw her was yesterday and I gave her a ride, we ate together, watched tv and she cut my hair for almost two hours.
Do I keep trying? Or was she trying to see if I just wanted sex? Honestly, it’s not sex that I want, it’s being able to be close to her emotionally and physically at some point. I know some will suggest I move on and there are plenty of women out there but I’m picky and she’s picky and I really would like to keep trying and get that chance to be with her.
Also, she kept saying woof around me and texting woof. Not sure if that even meant anything or not. She still does it.
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