So I have been seeing this guy for 5 monthish now. We aren't exclusive, kinda just going with the flow. I am pretty sure he is talking to like one other person. On the other hand, I am not. I either match with others and lose interest or feel weird. Kinda like I was cheating.
Anyways, I have tried multiple times to bring up the whole what are we conversation. Never do, as I straight up chicken out. Even with perfect moments, like seeing the app on his phone, a message, and etc. This weekend we had our first sleep over. I have been avoiding it, as I'm just a weird sleeper. He had invited me over Saturday morning, and basically said stay as long as you want.
The weekend went great. I didn't really look at my phone the whole time, he checked his occasionally if it seemed like an urgent text. The day went great and all. Nothing really seemed weird, I saw he texted someone with a girl name. I kinda figured it was a coworker or friend. He sent them a photo of the food we made. When we went to bed he offered a spare toothbrush. I didn't think anything of that as I keep spares too. Again, great chances to ask and I chickened out 🤦🤦😂😂.
However, the next morning as I went to leave so he can work. He said thank you for spending the weekend with him. I told him something like, "you're welcome and I don't mind since I like you". He kinda froze, looked at me a moment and said something like " oh is that the reasoning", then chuckled. We hugged goodbye. I also kinda subtly told him to text me more and not be shy about it. Yet, I kinda wasn't sure what to think of that as it wasn't a straight answer. All his body language during the weekend kinda leans towards the same feeling in return. Initiating cuddling or romantic cutsey moments. Like standing behind me while I cook. So this is just odd. I'm trying to not overthink. I know we aren't trying for a relationship right now. But I feel like I weirded him out. I mean, in comparison, I flat out said I love something about him and he didn't say anything or be weird!
Has anyone had a moment like this? Is this normal? I know I freeze when anyone says they love me. I want to text him and ask if I freaked him out. But that's weirder 😂😂. Also, probably overthinking.
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