First Reddit post! Here goes!
I really don't know how to start. I met this girl about 2 weeks ago. She followed me on instagram, I followed back. I liked one of her older pics, and she liked one back. Boom! Time for the DMs. I was able to sweet talk my way into meeting up with her and some of our mutual friends. That night I got her number and she went home. Two nights later she asked me to go over to her house. What?!? Okay. I got there and I feel like we literally clicked. I'm not talking like your normal "ohh we have so much in common blah blah blah". I mean it felt like I've known this girl for years. So I didn't plan on staying the night. She asked me to stay, so I did. I planned on sleeping on the couch until she said okay, lets go to bed. After watching two movies on the couch, we watched two more in her room on her bed. Talking, cuddling, tickling, laughing, biting, and a kiss. We have inside jokes as if we've been dating for a month. Not once was there any sexual touching or even talk about it. We ended up not even going to sleep. Sex wasn't even on my mind with this girl. We've talked every day since then except for yesterday. For two days prior to yesterday the texts were more spread apart than they have been and then yesterday I texted at about 2PM and nothing! I'm not going to push, I'm one to let someone do their thing and if I get a text back, cool. If not, well, I guess it's not meant to be. But I swore it was meant to be. The way we just kicked it off right away and felt like a connection like no other. She did say that she wants to meet up again and that she had a really good night. I really do not get attached to people very easily. I've had my fair share of sexual partners, one night stands and girlfriends. I've been "in love". I wouldn't say I'm in the dating scene but I'm not against dating either. Basically whatever happens, happens. I'm an open book and have sort of taught myself to live in the moment one day at a time. But wow, this girl hit me like a rock. Am I just getting too carried away? Am I overthinking everything right now because I've never felt like this? I wouldn't beat myself up if this didn't work out but I would be awfuly disapointed. Did she just want to get laid that night? Maybe she does this with all guys she meets? Should I try again in a couple days? And how on Earth did I let myself feel this way about someone I've just met and hung out one time alone with!? Appreciate in advance if this gets any attention!
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