So i (22m) met this really cute girl (19) on tinder shes more on the chubby side (this is important later on) but i dont care for that kind of stuff, we begin chatting i send some charming flirts and jokes which to my surprise work and she wants to have my number for whatsapp. We immediately find alot of things in common, talk about god and the world for a week now, she even opens up about her hard past with an abusive father. We send some flirty messages back and forth im starting to really like this smart and outgoing girl. We have a date planned for next week everything seems to be awesome. So now for the record im a really shy guy and unexperienced af in terms of relationships or even flirting, but i showed my interest in everything she said since im not terrible with words (at least while texting). Now comes that dreadful night where shes high on weed in her bed asking me to facetime her, me nervous af say sure why not. At first it seemed fine we laughed about some talk about drugs and titties falling out of shirts she complimented me on my looks. But then i get really self conciouss about sexual questions i get quiter and mumble my words she obviously notices how awkward im getting and the whole conversation goes kind off into silence. She then asks if i find her fat and my dumbass replies: from what ive seen so far your on the border of getting fat. I meant something totally different but didnt find the words. She tried to shake it off as a joke but i can see i definetly ruined the whole conversation we just had. So we aggree that were both tired and we wish each other good night and sweet dreams.
Wtf do i do know? Did i ruin everything? I was so awkward the whole facetime completly different from what i would text god i feel so stupid.
Anyway sorry for the long wall of text and my bad grammar and language typing this on phone.
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