So I realize there will always be someone better than me in so many ways. But I never seem to never be anyone's first choice. I know I am an attractive, well rounded woman.
Of course I don't need a man, but I'd like to experience a romantic relationship with one that loves me as much as I love them. I'm also a virgin, so there's that. I've initiated dates with men, put myself out there, joined dating sites. I take care of myself financially and mentally. But emotionally, I'm exhausted and would just appreciate if a man could show me the same energy. I'm tired of the games, and wondering what I could have done better to prevent them from ghosting me. I'm tired of relatives asking if I'm dating anyone, or why I'm single.
So I've stopped stretching myself thin and letting the men pursue, but it's the same results. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I am bit reserved and shy, but there's a lot of people like me in relationships, so it just eats at my self esteem. Maybe I'm just one of those people who stays alone forever.
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