Hey guys! I’ve been feeling really down lately and I just need some advice.
I know in a lot of cities 31 is young to start a family, but in my hometown most people my age have 3 kids. I am really struggling right now because all I’ve ever wanted were to be a young mom, and I can’t even seem to find someone that will stay with me.
I’m to the point I can’t not show my emotions when all my friends talk about their kids and their pregnancies. I swear all I see on my social media is there kids, anniversaries and pregnancy announcements and showers etc.
I’m recently out of a relationship I thought it was going to happen in. He said he wanted all the same things, we were even planning a wedding, then he dumped me out of no where.
I’m really struggling right now. It’s also in the back of my mind that maybe I’ll never have kids. My mom said to me the other day “maybe you aren’t meant to be a mom”. To hear that from my own mother makes it even more real to me.
Anyone have any advice or suggestions on how to deal with this and how to be able to be happy for my friends. Because I am honestly so happy they get to experience that, but I’m just struggling with myself, no matter how hard I work I can’t force someone to love me and want kids with me.
Thank you for the advice!
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