Hey folks just gonna spill the tea here for context.(26m) appreciate insight and advice from the community!
Met someone incredible and its going really well to my knowledge. We have known of each other for a few months now. We both work in advocacy and would be in similar circles for our work. we came across each other in bumble & matched a month ago and have talked nonstop since, texting, snap chat, Twitter dms, you name it. We have had 4 dates olnow and another in a few days.
We started sleeping together after the second date and they've stayed the night each time at my place and the physical chemistry was unlike anything I've experienced. The conversation flows so well and is super easy for us to talk and open up to each other too. I'm able to be goofy and my authentic self. I'm at place where I really like this person and am more emotionally invested than I've ever been in years and really could see myself dating them.
I know we've all got burned and have scars/wounds to work though. I'm still working through some trauma when a partner who really physically, and emotionally abused me to the point where I needed hospital care, this was 3+ years ago.
We both talked about some if our relationship history and we both were honest about hooking up with a bunch of people and how that's effected out ability to connect with others on more intimate level.
I'm sacred but I want to communicate my authentic feelings out there for this person next time we see each other . My gut says they feel similar but I'm trying to figure out how to articulate this well & to do that without putting unwarranted pressure or making them uncomfortable.
Thanks everyone
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