I (M18) found a friend (F21) while playing league of legends. She asked in the game chat something about the champion she was playing ( this was in ARAM) and i was the only one who answered. So after that we both wrote some funny lines in the game chat. After that game she invited me to an another game. I accepted because i thought it would be polite and she played well so i also thought that maybe we would win some more games.
After i accepted she wrote that she didn't think i would actually accept the invite. I said: "Well, but i did. So let's play some more games". After what she asked me what my name was and where i was from. I told her where im from and she got super excited. And said she was from the neighboring country. To which i replied: "oooooo, brothers". And she said that she is a sister though. And i told her that that was even better. So, we played some more games. That was the end of the evening and i thought the end of us playing together too. Didn't think much of it.
But. The next day she tells me about some big news about both of our countries. So we talk a little. And to my surprise she asks me to play with her again. We would play like this for about a week.
One day she asks me if i would like to play with her and her friend and i agreed. So to my surprise they use voice comms but being the shy guy i am i didn't feel comfortable saying anything in english. The next day i wrote to her if she would like to play a normal game with me and that we could use voice comms. So i gather my courage and we spend the evening talking about much more than league too. And i also tell her that i didn't actually give her my actual name and then told her my real name. I could feel she was a little offended but we both laughed after. We would play like this for a couple of weeks and only talk in the game chat.
One night she tells me that she has a meme she wants to send me and asks if i have discord. So we add eachother on discord and start talking a lot more and sending eachother memes.
So time passes and we start sending eachother pictures of ourselves too. She was of course the one to send the first ones. We would talk every day and every free moment. And i feel us having a great connection. She tells me she has never vibed this well with an another person before, which i take as a huge compliment. She tells me that she is so happy that she met me in that game and wouldn't even imagine her life without me to talk to.
One evening she doesn't answer and doesn't play and im like: "oohh, okay, i guess im not that important to her" and feel a little sad. But the next day she apologizes and says she is trying to break up her 5 year relationship. I hadn't even known she was in a relationship but didn't think much of it. So the next few days she doesn't write that much and tells me that it's quite difficult right now. And i say that i will be there if she needs to vent or just talk about anything to get her mind off of the breakup. And so she tells me about her relationship and that she was actually engaged. This caught me off guard but i didn't think about it too much, just tried to support her. . After 3 weeks we play again and use voice comms. One of the first thing she says is: "i did actually miss your voice and talking to you", which made me really happy. I tell her that i missed playing with her too. And so we actually start talking about maybe meeting up. But as our work schedules don't match we have to leave it to the end of august when my work ends and she has a couple of free days.
So we talk more often. We wish eachother good morning and good night. And also talk throughout the whole day. We would also kind of flirt and she would tease me and give me hints that some fun and unexpected things would happen when we meet and drink together. She also said that she had never had conversations this good with a person younger than her and that she is so happy i have changed her life for the better. And also that she sees me in her dreams all the time.
We play more often then and start talking about the meeting more seriously and set a definite date for the meetup. We agreed to go to the zoo, sleep in the car and drink some booze.
So the day arrives, when i have to drive 400km to pick her up. When we meet, we hug for like 10 seconds and she tells me that she hasn't felt this happy in a long time. We drive around and have these crazy good conversations, because we both value ourselves as good conversationalists. We have a long day of fun and finally relax in my car with a bottle of vodka. We play some cards and drink. When the bottle is empty, she lays her head in my lap and asks me if i could tell her some stories from my past. So i spend the next 2 hours telling her stories about the school trips i had and we both laughed really hard. So finally she asks me if i feel comfortable with her falling asleep with her head in my lap, to which i agree. Some time during the night i see that she is a little cold, so i cover her with one of the blankets i had.
We wake up in the morning and she says she felt really comfortable sleeping with her head in my lap and that she really loved my storytelling. And when she asked if i put another blanket on her and i said yes, she told me that she was so thankful of me because she was actually a little cold.
We spend the day going on a walk to a bog trail. Every 100m or so she would ask me a question and we spent like 4h talking on the trail. She also tells me that if she ever would move to a different country it would be my country.
So i take her home again, because she had some family issue they had to talk through. When we reach her house, we again hug for like 10 seconds. And she tells me that she really liked spending time with me and even when we weren't talking just being in my presence. She also tells me she loved listening to my music with me. But only with me because thats not her taste usually. So we say our goodbyes and hug.
And in the evening she tells me that she hopes to spend more time together the next time but she is really sad because we won't be able to soon because of university starting. And tells me that i gave her more compliments in 2 days than her boyfriend/fiance in 3 years. She again tells me that meeting me was a miracle.
Am i just delusional thinking that she likes me and have been reading hints wrong? Or should i try to make a move and if, then how? Cause i don't want to really mess up the friendship we have.
TL;DR: Met a girl on LOL and have been talking days and nights. We compliment eachother, flirt, vibe really well together (has given me hints that i don't know how to read correctly) . Should i make a move and how?
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