So him (26M) and I(23F) have been texting and talking daily for a month and a half, and recently went on our 3rd date which was great and ended with a serious make out session. He flat out suggested we go up to my place, and I told him I’m not ready for that and it’s too early for me. He responded with just saying okay but it came up again as a side comment after we kissed goodbye (and he was grabbing me which was fun) and he said you’re sure you don’t want me to come up?’ To which I again responded with ‘nope sorry not ready for that’.
Now he wants to set a fourth date and I would love to see him again, but I’m scared it’ll come up again and that he’ll pressure me... I mean I trust myself to not do anything I’m not comfortable with but I’m afraid of a situation in which he keeps on asking and hinting and I feel pressured and unsafe. I’ll note that we both are looking for a serious relationship, and he himself said he wants to take things slow. So wdid? 🙏🏻 I’d love to hear a guy’s answer to how I can do things on my own pace without being pressured into them, while also not hurting him. Helppp
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