Do you think it's wrong that I feel like I want a girlfriend but don't really care about having friends?

To give some context I'm 23M, never had a girlfriend but have friends.

I feel like my problem with friends is I just don't ever build the kind of connection that makes me care about it in a big way. Like if I lose that friend life just goes on.

It's not to say that I don't care about having friends at all, I like to occasionally have someone to talk to about whatever and hang out, play games etc. But I don't feel like it's a big deal when I lose that.

Now again, I've never had a girlfriend but I do feel like it's just a different level of intimacy, which I can feel even when I just go on a date with someone, and I think it would be more of a feeling of building something together, always having someone on your side, doing activities that would be pointless and boring on your own but interesting together etc. which I don't feel I could get from friends.

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