For context, I went on a date with a guy from hinge two weeks ago. We got dinner and had drinks, which he paid for despite me offering to split the check. He walked me to my car and before I left, he suggested we go to his favorite restaurant for our second date. I said yes because I felt some sort of connection and we had great conversations during the night.
He told me to text him when I got home and I did. We both confirmed again that we had a lot of fun and can’t wait for the next date too. That second date was supposed to be last night but he cancelled in the morning because he said he has been too stressed out with work and doesn’t want to bring bad energy to the date. I want to believe that he’s actually busy but I’m also skeptical about whether or not he’s still interested in seeing me... since our first date, I’ve been the one initiating most of the conversations, which have been short. I was also the one that had to text him yesterday morning about whether or not our date was still on... I feel like if I didn’t reach out, he probably wouldn’t have said anything to me?
He also mentioned yesterday that we could potentially do something this upcoming week because he “should be better by then.” What does this mean?? I want to believe that he’s still interested but I’m a major overthinker.
I just don’t get why he would initiate a second date and express major interest through text, but not follow through with the date as planned... I understand he’s busy with work but he told me before that he’s almost always free at night on the weekends. Maybe I’m just a second option to him?
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