How do you 'end it' after going on one Tinder date? Assume the date went very well and you have a wonderful conversation and great chemistry but there isn't physical attraction. Do you just unmatch from the person after the date, not follow up (and hope they don't) and then unmatch later, or tell them the truth?
If you were to be honest, what exactly would you say? Are there any recent times you have told someone this?
I feel it would be a bit presumptuous to tell them you aren't interested because....maybe they aren't interested. I also feel it would be a bit odd to say you aren't interested if there was chemistry and you had a great date....sending them a message that you aren't interested seems a bit cruel if the date went great. I'm sure this would likely give some people a complex for awhile.
What is the most appropriate and respectful way to slip away after a date that went well, but one where you know it won't lead to a romantic relationship?
What would you prefer if you were on the receiving end (the one being rejected)?
What would you do if you were on the giving end (the one rejecting the other person)?
And what do you do if you like the person, but just want to be their friend, but not their romantic partner, and not lead them on? I had a friend tell me to just say 'I just want to be your friend' and I think that's brilliant but I'm not quite sure how to slip that into the conversation.
I agree that you should be up-front after a few days and definitely not lead someone on but I'm not sure what the most appropriate thing to do is after only one date.
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