I’ve (27F) been talking to someone (27M) for 7 weeks. Both wanted to hang out, but were waiting to be fully vaccinated. During this period, we’ve texted (lightly) every day, like 50/50 for initiating. We also had a couple of FaceTime dates.
He lives a bit outside my city (2.5ish hours away via public transport), and he only has 1 day off per week. When he was finally fully vaccinated, we immediately set up a date - and from the get-go he framed date at him traveling to me. We had never discussed who would go where, but I did kind of assume this (he lives with his mom - not impossible, but not ideal). I did thank him for traveling.
Our date was last week! We grabbed dinner and then pretty quickly went back to my place and slept together. He texted me that night, and we’ve talked every day since. Cool.
A couple of days after the date, I texted basically “Date was fun, we should do that again” (which was vague, I know). He replied, “I agree, I’m glad you had fun.” (Vague - but maybe I set myself up for vague lol). Like I said, he's texted a bunch since that - so not too concerned.
I would like a little bit more clarity, though. So I stop wondering (and posting on reddit), I plan to reach out again, saying something like: “I know I’ve said this already, but I had a lot of fun last week. What are your next couple of weeks looking like? Let’s plan something.”
My questions are:
- Is this a trash attempt at asking someone out again? I'm usually not the initiator - should I ask him if he wants to see me again, before just saying "Let's plan something?" (I am nervous!)
- Is this too vague of a date request? It’s my best attempt as asking, while being mindful of the fact that he’s got a weird schedule and I don't expect him to spend all of his free time with me.
- Do you think this week is too soon to ask again, when I already sad “we should do that again” on Sunday, and didn't get a clear answer?
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