It all started with me seeing this girl that I met through some friends for almost 7 months during quarantine. We didn't get to go out too much in the beginning but god damn it was a LOT of texting and playing games online, and video cahtting and all that jazz. When we started going out (When conditions were more lax in out city) we had some great days and got pretty close. Like we never had proper sex, but we fooled around/made out quite a bit-in my opinion, it was equal to having intercourse but whatever. The point is, it was a long relationship and we were intimate.
Regardless, I thought we were fairly close but I guess she didn't and ever since our last date going on 3 weeks ago, she's baaaasically been ghosting me. Just minimal contact and some mutual friends are telling me that doesn't want to see me any more. This checks out as from her twitter it's clear she's seeing other guys which is 100% ok but within the context of the unresponsiveness-it's pisspoor. Overall it's really shitty behavior and I want to call her out or a least formally end things. We've known each other for over half a year rather closely and it's just not cool to do that-and this isn't even mentioning the drama from mutual friends that's she's also randomly cutting out. It's so childish for someone to do and is affecting more people than just myself!
But some of my non-mutual friends are telling me that texting her after not hearing back for almost 2 weeks is a bad idea...which I can see. Now it's not even that I'm gonna reprimand her-literally I just want to say "goodbye" and "have a good year"-mainly to make it so it's not on me, and to remove traces of me from the equation. I'm thinking that if I at least formally end things then things might become more normal for our mutual friends who are partly blaming me (For reasons that don't make any sense since all the power is in the ghosts' hands...they're just being frustrated IMO). Anywho, it's just a shitty situation and I don't know what to do...any advice would be great.
*I can provide more info on what exactly is going on with the mutual friends but hopefully that's enough info. Lmk if you need more fr advice.
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