TLDR: I (20f) made eye contact with an acquaintances boyfriend (20m) it was the most powerful feeling (magnetic, knocked the wind out of me, damn near knocked me in my a**) I’ve ever felt. What does this mean?/what is this called???
To get right to the point....I (20f) was hanging out with my group of friends one night. My best friends other friend came with her boyfriend (20m). We will call him Austin. I’ve never hung out with either of them and didn’t know Austin at all, have never seen, talked to or had any idea Austin existed.
I let them in to the house and didn’t really look at him. We all settle in to hang out and I got my first look. As soon as we made eye contact it was the craziest feeling. It’s hard to explain and I wasn’t expecting it, but it felt like I got the wind knocked out of me, was shocked, got chills, it was magnetic and it seemed like everything disappeared around me. It was so powerful, in the moment I had complete tunnel vision on him and his eyes. all from the first eye contact I’ve ever made with him. I’ve never experienced this before and haven’t experienced it since.
Since Austin was with his girl I did everything I could to be respectful. I could tell he felt at-least something there’s no way I was the only one feeling the pull. I’d catch him looking at me every once in a while but we would both look down immediately. It was really hard not to look at him I wanted to talk, touch, and be near him so badly. I kept eye contact to a minimum as best I could for fear of the others noticing. We chatted here and there but nothing happened and I haven’t seen him since.
So to why I’m writing this.... what does this mean? Is there a name for it? Am I going crazy? It left a huge impact on me and I think about it quite a bit. Obviously, since he has a girl I haven’t tried to contact him and I’m honestly wondering if this is just all in my head! I don’t plan on reaching out while he’s with someone else. But it was so impactful I would love to know the psychology behind it or any advice if this is something to consider pursuing or if I should forget about it and move on.
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