This is a bit long but I want the best advice,
So about a month and a half ago things with this girl started moving. When I first met her I liked her personality but didn't even think of her as a friend since she is a co-worker. Then we went on break one day, she grabs my arm and takes me with her to eat. We had a nice conversation and talked about a show we both like. From that day forward she started waving to me, approaching me to talk, touching me (respectfully) and I eventually started developing feelings for her. About two weeks ago she hands me a note and pen. The note says "Do you have a crush on me? Yes or no". Since I liked her I circled yes and wrote "Do you like me?" and gave it back. She wrote "Maybe just a little bit :)". So I asked for her number. She then takes my hand and writes it on it. I was so happy. So I shoot her a text asking if she'd like to go bowling. Her parents wouldn't let her apparently (We're 16). So about a week later we see each other at work. She walks up behind me and touches my back, then walks away and glances at me. I'm putting away the carts and she notices a sticker got stuck on my shirt. I take it off and put it on her arm causing her to laugh. That day I got out before her I ask if her parents would be ok with us walking trails near my house since it's outdoors. Then she says she got bad grades and that's another reason they aren't letting her go. That sounds understandable so I didn't take it personally. The day after she sees my mom shopping and asks where I am. Now that leads me to where I'm at now. I send her a text saying sorry I missed her here is the message and her response,
Me: My mom just told me you were at the store. Sorry I missed you.
Her: Nah its cool. Btw does she know you like me?
Me: She started asking questions a few weeks ago because she was seeing us talking. And last week I said I might need a ride if you were able to go do something. I'd say she knows.
Her: Ah ok. So any plans for the weekend? Also im not working this weekend but I am working either tuesday or wednesday
Me: It doesn't look like I have anything to do this weekend. I might have work Sunday but I'll have to check the schedule. Are you up for doing something?
Now after this I get absolute silence. Up until then I got responses quickly so I send her,
If you still can't it was just a offer.
It's been over two days now. Should I be concerned? Since it's been 48hours I sent her a bad lip reading from the show we like to try and get a response. Still nothing and it was five hours ago :/
I'm worried I've come off as too strong because Wendsday she said she couldn't do anything and I asked two days later. I saw her today and she waved to me as usual. I didn't ask why she didn't respond to avoid looking desperate. Maybe I'm worrying over nothing, I don't know. Should I delete her from my phone and move on to other girls? And thanks for reading.
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