We went from talking a lot a day till one day things just started going silent. It was the day he didnt text me back at all, but I let it slide because I knew he was working that day and hes a cop. But the next was his day off so I was expecting him to text me back and we start talking again.
So the next day he finally texted me back and said he didnt get back home till 1am because of the job and I said cool and was happy to hear from him again and asked him what happened at the job. Again no text back for the rest of the day. So I thought maybe he just sleeping or something.
So the day after that he finally text me back in the middle of the day and just answered "just a lot of craziness out there". I was hoping he would give me more detail or just something more than one "sentence" answers or at least a conversation. So I asked him another question to get the convo going since we havent had a real convo in 3 days now. He just gave a literal ONE WORD response. So I asked another question and by evening it was still no answer and this his day off too.
So I just got fed up and figured this guy is not interesting in me anymore and I just say "well it was nice talking to u" and after that still no response.
And then the day after that it got so silent I just finally texted "Goodbye".
I really felt like he was trying to slowly ghost me.
So the next day after texting Goodbye and getting nothing in reply again I just said "I feel bad that you just ghosted me like that though. You could have at least let me know why or what happened?".
So he FINALLY texted me back that evening and gave more than a one word response and said...
"Never ghosted you. Just have been super busy But that stuff like “Well, it was nice talking to u” or “Goodbye” it’s lowkey a lil extra to me…….so yeah.
So I felt bad and thought maybe I was too harsh. So I texted him sorry and got nothing back (again). So I tried calling him and of course he doesn't pick up.
So I just finally explained to him in a few texts that I got tired of him going M.I.A on me and I can't wait days for him to answer back so I told him Goodbye for the final time.
Am I in the wrong??
I lost some of my trust in him already because the first time we were suppose to facetime he said he forgot so I'm just assuming hes not taking me serious.
EDIT: You guys in the comments must be single instead of giving me advice y'all just insulting me and expecting me not to get mad back.
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/38hcZHm
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment