I've had a few guys say this to me.
They do call me beautiful, but the amount of times men have stressed to me 'looks don't matter, a kind heart is more important' etc.
I know they mean it as a compliment, but it feels like such an insult.
Examples of what men have said to me:
'You've made me realise looks really don't matter. You are such a good person and that's so much more important' (said by abusive ex so blahh)
'You are such a kind person. I love your heart. I don't care about looks I just want someone who is kind'.
'My ex used to treat me so badly. You're such a good person, that matters so much more than looks'.
Those are just some examples. But like...it would be nice to have someone think you are actually beautiful. These guys do on occasion say I am beautiful, sexy etc. But it's never something they use to compliment me. It's always about kindness, hard working, my heart etc..
I'm sorry I know this is vain but I cannot help but feel like such an ugly piece of shit. I hate hearing this so much. I know that looks fade, that personality DOES matter (because I feel this way myself) but I dunno. Will there ever be anyone who actually finds me beautiful?
Sorry again...rant of an ugly woman lol.
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