I have become so incredibly insecure bc of modern dating culture.
I remember when I was younger and I would start talking/ dating someone, and the thought that they would be talking to or seeing someone else would NEVER cross my mind. I had trust in people and I was secure.
But now, I see so much of my friends cheat or get cheated on and it has really fucked up my perception of dating and has made me really insecure.
I immediately think the person I’m interested in or dating is talking to other people or sometimes I continue to talk to other people so I “don’t get attached” or “catch feelings.”
I’ve even been told, “if a guy hasn’t made it official with you, remember he is single and will act accordingly.”
But I want to get attached and catch feelings. I want to show interest. I want someone to know I want to be completely & 100% about them from the beginning, even if we are figuring out where it goes.
I hate the mind games and I hate that I notice the little things or possible red flags that make me think there’s someone else or something. I don’t even know if I’m actually picking up on things or if I’m paranoid and insecure.
Don’t really know how to approach dating without feeling this way.
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